Ideally nprofile1qythwumn8ghj7anfw3hhytnwdaehgu339e3k7mf0qyghwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnhd9hx2tcppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qqsyvrp9u6p0mfur9dfdru3d853tx9mdjuhkphxuxgfwmryja7zsvhqkdr6hs (nprofile…r6hs) could have some way to NOTIFY without it nagging every time, but them still being able to see it in the relay list if they ignore it :)
Currently it's basically impossible to know if the user ever saw it or if their client doesn't support it
