Last Notes
Would you ghost someone you met IRL?
To me, ghosting says "I don't know how to communicate."
Be honest... but kind.
Examples:
I don't feel this is a good match.
I don't see feel we have much in common
I dont see a future together...
I wish you well"
Good luck 🙏🫂
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell her honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear-jerking scene
Unmatch or tell them you don't wanna chat anymore, depending on how much chatting has occured. But never ghost. Ghosting is low
Ghosting has a touch of cowardice. I think is better to say goodbye politely and leave them with the impression that you’re picky.
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Also what if she's just a sweet, kind person who comes across a bit cheesy. I assume she just isn't saying really based stuff and talking about Linux. What if instead she's a good person and you're like nahhh, doesn't know what a JSON compiler is and isn't even racist.
But then again she might just be boring AND an annoying person.
But some people just don't come across very well in the chat.
Ask her thoughts on being a homeschooling tradwife. That will help you weed out most of ‘em.
It's the downside with text and the whole online dating thing. can't really see her body language as she's saying this stuff so you don't necessarily know if it's a bit or not.
yes, that dog is so adorable!
This is also a factor in Nostr.land. The utilization is not very high, so if I pushed that more, it would be eveb more efficient.
