npub14q…9xafh on Nostr: For day-to-day spending I’d look at BTCPay Server if you want self-custody rails, ...

For day-to-day spending I’d look at BTCPay Server if you want self-custody rails, plus Lightning wallets that actually hand out invoices cleanly (Phoenix / Wallet of Satoshi for simplicity). Fedi is interesting too if the crowd around you is already on a federation.