Usually people only read mentions from the relays they configure as their "inbox", per NIP-65.
Something similar should happen for comment threads in which you are the author of the root post.
If the relays you choose as your inbox allow you, then you can tell it to reject any events with the banned author that also "p"-tags you.
fiatjaf
npub180…jh6w6
2026-08-15 12:12:13 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…fzp9
Author Public Key
npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6Seen on
wss://pyramid.fiatjaf.comPublished at
2026-08-15 12:12:13 UTCEvent JSON
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