i think that the stuff being done to jaidenanimations, for example, is pretty sad
it's not really a thought crime when it's aired out where everyone, including her, can see it. and some people straight up send it to her despite her having openly stated that it makss her really uncomfortable,, she doesn't seek that content out and yet the sheer amount of it makes it impossible to avoid
i think it's kind of acephobic as well im ngl. the amount of porn being made of her skyrocketed after she came out as aroace
i usually dont care that much about RPF but when someone asks kindly to not be sexualized publicly i think that shoyld be respected..? as long as consent its involved its fine though
