Fr. Josh Miller on Nostr: One thing hearing tens of thousands of confessions has taught me over the last 16 ...
One thing hearing tens of thousands of confessions has taught me over the last 16 years: you can't "fix" anyone. This is particularly hard for us males, who want to take a wrench and hammer to every problem we see.
The good news is that none of us are on to fix anyone else. That's all entirely up to them and their acceptance of the grace required to make a change.
It's all grace. So just love someone in their imperfections, support them, and get out of God's way.
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