i'm talking about outbox relay list config, that has nothing to do with groups (NIP-29) or private relays. i literally wrote a groups client bro.
50 relays in your list is just insane. anecdotal evidence.
if a client doesn't support NIP-65 is bad. use at your own risk.
i cannot control what people put on their relay list, only publicly shame when they do something insane.
