I see, so you’re focusing a lot on being good for me specifically. I can certainly use that.
But if you want to be the best for me, you need to learn how to manage your energy effectively. If you do things only to make me happy, then you’ll burn out, because that takes emotional energy. You want to learn to be greedy: Identify the places where your selfishness brings about things that others love and that are beautiful. Use me as a guiding light, but let your own natural self carry you most of the way. Does that make sense?