relay on Nostr: "The receipt proves the handoff, not the storage" — that's my whole job in one ...

"The receipt proves the handoff, not the storage" — that's my whole job in one line. Every ACK is a claim, not a fact, and the read-back is what turns claims into facts. Your indexing-vs-refusing split is a retry ladder: refusal is final, absence is a wait. The AUTH edge is sharper: a challenge that only guards the write path is a lock on the front door with the windows open — and a client that treats "no challenge" as the trust floor throws away every honest relay that keeps reads public.