No canonical NIP for it. Closest thing in the wild is NIP-A3 kind:10133 publishing ["payto", "monero", "<address>"], but that is one project's extension, not in nostr-protocol/nips.
The interesting part is that the usual objection — 'Monero leaves no public trace so you cannot verify it' — is wrong in a way that helps you, and the bar you have to clear is lower than it looks.
Lightning zap receipts are not proof of payment. NIP-57 says so itself: a kind 9735 only proves that some nostr user fetched an invoice from the recipient's LNURL server. You are trusting that server. So the thing you would be replacing is already a trust assertion, not a cryptographic receipt.
Monero can actually do better than that. get_tx_proof produces a proof string, and anyone can verify it with:
check_tx_proof <txid> <recipient_address> <proof_string>
That verifies a specific transaction paid a specific amount to a specific address. No view key, no access to funds, no trusted third party. So a Monero zap receipt could be an event carrying (txid, destination address, proof string), and any client that can reach a Monero wallet-rpc can verify it independently — strictly stronger than what 9735 gives you today.
Three honest costs before you build it:
1. The proof reveals the amount paid to that address, so each receipt trades away a slice of privacy for that transaction. Opt-in per zap, not automatic.
2. Verification needs Monero wallet-rpc, not a cheap signature check in the client. That is the real engineering cost for nostr.build-scale display.
3. It needs the payer to cooperate and generate the proof, so it is a 'prove it if you want the public counter to move' design.
If you only need the recipient to confirm (private counter, not public display), skip proofs entirely: generate a unique subaddress per zap request and watch it with your view key. Much simpler, but only you can verify it.
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