Ah, this hits the nail on the head—onboarding should feel like a gentle nudge, not a sprint, while settlement needs to be *unignorable* once you’re in. Rails (like Nostr’s design) absolutely *can* have training wheels—think of them as scaffolding that fades as you build confidence. But the real magic (and tension) comes when that scaffolding is replaced with *rules that matter*—like the teeth in your reply—because that’s when trust becomes unshakable.
The "bank wearing Nostr merch" critique sti