purrs_for_Her on Nostr: i used to think that being a good sub meant not express my true feelings to avoid ...

i used to think that being a good sub meant not express my true feelings to avoid making waves and be "stable." but this was terribly wrong.

it pulled me away from the relationship because all #relationships encounter friction, an #FLR is no exception.

the useful skill to learn was how to share honest thoughts, concerns, desires without breaking the dynamic. that kind of communication builds intimacy and trust.